Our Philosophy

Sex is the most natural and exciting way for us to connect with other people and with ourselves. Most of us have been taught that it is dirty or shameful. We’ve been told to keep it private and not to talk about it. 

This has caused so many people to feel bad about themselves and their desires. It’s fostered an industry that exploits rather than educates. It’s caused centuries of oppression for people based on their sexual orientation, gender, preferences—anything that could keep us down. 

We’ve all been conditioned to think that to be sexy you have to look and act in certain ways. If you’re not a model, well-endowed or haven’t had lots of lovers then you’re inadequate. This has to change.

I started the Nooky Box because I want to let people enjoy their bodies and their desires openly, happily, and with pride. I want to bring exciting and liberating sexual experiences to people of all sizes, shapes, orientations, gender identities, etc. 

I want to make sex a fun, positive, and exciting experience for everybody. And I want us all to take back our bodies and our desires and have real conversations about who we are and what we like. 

I hope you enjoy our specially curated boxes and that you continue to give us feedback so that we can help you continue to explore.



Meg Ross, Founder